I understand completely. It’s natural I believe. As long as it’s not toxic this stage will pass and y’all may be closer than ever.
Relationships take effort, so I would talk to your husband about how you feel, try to set up date nights, try to get intimate when baby is asleep, maybe some music to help with the mood, try to remember what brought you 2 together in the first place, before babies and marriage. Good luck!
Same here 😔