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I’ve tried to make friends on here, I’ve made 2 in the past but one moved and we lost touch and the other one is a different story I won’t get into. Anyways, I’ve messaged and talked to a few moms on here that I thought I’d click with and I’m getting left on read. It’s not that I’m being dry in my opinion, like I’m asking questions giving good replies etc. but they just never reply back after some point and I mean I understand if they just get busy but after a week It’s pretty safe to assume they don’t want to talk to you anymore and I’m not one to blow up someone’s phone like that especially when it comes to trying to make friends. I’m just frustrated I guess🙄
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I feel this. I’ve made a few close friends on there that I’m unfortunately not close with anymore and since all that it’s so hard to really get a friendship started and keep it going. So disappointing 😭

I can relate to this but for my case… I’m dealing with postpartum depression and there’s times where I cry for days and can’t get a hold of myself… I feel like trying to make friends while in that mindset is a real struggle because most people already have a lot on their plate and don’t necessarily want to befriend someone with baggage. That’s my opinion at least… so as much as I’d love to make friends, click with someone… I just can’t because I am mentally struggling a lot all while trying to care for my 5 month old, three cats… being a FTM single and living alone… to top it off I’m struggling financially and I might lose my home. Legit crying in the floor while typing all this 😭🤣😅

Sometimes I feel like I’m boring or not consistent enough to make friends on here, like I want real genuine friendships 😭😭 like we can understand each other and help each other but it’s hard sometimes

i’m not consistent enough in my replies to make new friends, luckily all of my best friends know me well enough to know that if i don’t reply to them i will eventually message them back, but also most of my friends also don’t message me back when they want to we can go weeks and weeks without talking sometimes and it doesn’t bother us, we come back together like we never stopped talking

@Tamzin girl same, like we know we are in good standing but sometimes we get busy in life and when we need each other we still there

All I can say is same and I just need friends ….

Move the chat off peanut onto IG/FB ir if you plan to meet get her number. I’ve had more success that way.

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