Has anyone felt this way and their marriage worked out?

So I was talking to my best friend last night about this and realized this is kinda sad. I realized I love my bf with my whole heart but because of the way he treated me and acted during my pregnancy I never want to have another one of his kids. He’s amazing now and a great father. I’d happily marry him today if he asked. I love him but I dont think I love him enough to have another one of his kids. I dont think it’s fair to him and one day I may even change my mind but at this current time I don’t see myself ever being happy if so find out i’m pregnant again because of how bad the first one was. Has anyone ever felt this way and their relationship worked? please don’t be rude, I’m genuinely asking because I think because of this my relationship might be over and it breaks my heart.

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Men dont understand pregnancy and how it affects our bodies… id talk to him about how you felt, and how you feel currently. Communication is key in relationships

How long ago did you have you little one? It sounds almost like it could be postpartum depression. And for my pregnancy, both times, I felt like I was more sensitive to everything and everyone around me. Sometimes it’s due to the hormonal changes during the pregnancy. I was mostly fine with my first but with my second pregnancy, I would just get annoyed with everything my partner did, even though it was to take care of me. The way he moves, his smells, his hair, his face like I was just not attracted to him in anyway and yet I know I love him 😂 I didn’t like his cooking, anything he cooks I’d just find something to complain about, everything was just getting on my nerves. I even thought about maybe I didn’t really love him or he didn’t really love me, maybe we should go out separate ways after. Then it all started to change after I had given birth to my son. I think it’s important to not make any decisions when you are well overwhelmed with emotions and you can’t rationalise yourself

@Nattinan just gonna add in here that PPD can come at any point after pregnancy!!

@Nattinan I feel you. My husband pissed me off twice yesterday for saying the most normal/unimportant things but I took offence at them 😂 and a lot of nights I go sleep on the sofa because he wants to cuddle me in my sleep and it keeps me awake 😂 the pregnancy hormones are wild!

@Gabrielle 🥰

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