Is he trying to get serious

So my friends with benefits and I have been talking a lot the last year. He sends me Good morning every morning and we have never gone more than a day without him reaching out to me…he has an onlyfans and into that lifestyle. The Sex between him and I is out of this GALAXY. We never went out anywhere except the beach. Well the other day he said we should go on a cruise. We booked the 2 day cruise for November. It’s the same cruise he went on with his ex girlfriend…. He knows I love him. Does this mean he is going into a direction of trying to date me ? We literally talk all day everyday through WhatsApp. Voice messages. He is a very mature guy which I like also a Virgo if that makes a difference. I just don’t think a guy would want to go on a cruise with me (knowing I have feelings) without thinking of a future with me. Am I being delusional or am I right? Thanks all in advance

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I wouldn’t have my hope up or trust him really just because of the only fans. I’d be paranoid about him recording, but that’s just me. That’s not a man worth being in a committed relationship with, enjoy the sex, be safe & be intentional about what you want

I have an onlyfans also

Unless a guy says it from his mouth, don't assume it. A guy will literally do all the bf/gf things, then look at you crazy for thinking it was something more.

Having onlyfans is a red flag. You’re potentially looking at a porn/sex addict. If I were you I’d enjoy the sex as long as you do but then run the other direction.

Definitely not grounds for a relationship at least a monogamous one. If he hasn’t professed anything I wouldn’t guess either. Men love to lead women on and later say that you knew all along what it was. Don’t set yourself up, define the relationship now or just enjoy your trip and cut him off. Most men are already selfish & OF to me is red flag whether you do it as well or not. If this dude is not progressive, he’ll also put you in a box & say he doesn’t want you because you do OF too. Double standards…it’s a setup!

I feel like everyone is so negative on here. I admire everyone’s opinions but not one person said he’s it means he wants something more serious with you. I’m not trying to be delusional but also I try to be more positive

Why don’t you maybe have that conversation with him? Just to see where you stand?

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