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Anyone else burnt out on trying to make mom friends or just genuine friends in general? - I had someone tell me since I didn’t drink, I wouldn’t be around the friend group long. (Gone) - Had someone tell me they felt the only reason they felt we were close is because we all went to church together (everyone gone) - Most people I meet here only make it to a text message or not even off the app I’m over it honestly lol and I work from home so its hard to actually get to know people. I’m just gonna go with the flow and whatever happens, happens. Edited to add: I’m 32 in the Austell/Mableton area Vent over 🙂
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Yeah after getting pregnant all my friends vanished stop texting me, calling me I don’t drink either or smoke so it’s hard to find a friend group that fits me. And I talked to a girl in here for a week and she ghosted me so yeah it’s hard making friends lol. It’s just been me my 1month old, TikTok, and Netflix

Friend, I don’t drink either but I’m the life of the party. We can be friends!

Why is it. If you don’t drink. Or don’t smoke. You basically become the outcast now 🙃 maybe you can’t. Maybe you chose not to. Maybe you’re recovering. Whatever reason. The fact it’s a deal breaker for any social now days. Is awful.

I feel that. I've found motherhood to be incredibly lonely and friendships very hard to come by. I'm pregnant now and have found that isolates you even more because you can't drink or go out and that's how so many people socialize. Me and my 3 y.o. like to hike around Georgia, get crafty, check out museums. We like to stay busy and exploring! Message me if you want!

I don't drink, wanna hang out?

@Tris yes, that is extremely crazy to me! Lol

@Lucia absolutely! Like. If you don’t or can’t drink. Or have kids. Nobody wants to. Unless they have kids. And then sometimes that brings a whole other level to it. When parenting styles clash. It’s LONELY. and NOBODY says anything about It til you’re THERE

I only talk to one of my friends since I had my baby

@Noel I wish 😩 I’m far from Cumming though

@Nyeisha I promise sometimes TikTok keeps me sane lol

I’m not a big drinker (less than social) and I don’t let anyone make me feel bad about it. I’m “naturally high” and that has gotten me through all these years. Just start your own group on here or elsewhere for moms just like you, you’re not alone.

I know the feeling . I’m in Cobb area not far from ya . Hit me up 💚

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