Connections

I will also say. I have met some amazing women on this app, so I know that these connections are there. We just need to cut through the crap in between to figure if we mesh or not.

Hi I’m new to here and I’m from uk 🇬🇧

Hey I am from the Uk too, portsmouth x

Welcome, ladies! What do you guys look for in connecting with other women? @Emma Cotterell and @Ana

I will usually look at their profile to see what we have in common. The way they answer the question prompts also helps me to get an idea of their personality. If we have made it into the inbox, I usually jump right into being my normal self so that it's not awkward. I find that a lot of people will reach out but don't really have the time to keep up a conversation or get to know you any, so it sort of fizzles out. I have met one good friend here so far that I have gone "off app" with and one more that I am almost there with.

Hi!! Let’s really connect. I Don’t like the small talk lol it never goes anywhere. Let’s start with the big stuff. What’s something you never told anyone!! 😂😂

I look to see what we have in common. Most times I look for people with kids close in age to mine but that’s very rare lol

@Sadé i usually do the same thing. Lol. I don't want us thinking we're different than what we are. Lol. @Dima idk if there is anything specific to something i never told anyone that isn't uncomfortable @Bre that isn't as common. You are right. If they're in a similar age range. Great. If not...then we probably mesh in other ways. Connections for me are great to have either way. Lol

If a chat gets going move it off the platform onto IG/FB or get her direct number, chances of a successful friendship and a meet is much higher if you move it. I look for same interests and if we can vibe and have subjects to chat when we do get together. Her age or her kids ages do not matter to me, we just need to vibe. Coz out of the 14 I’ve met on here I’ll say I only vibed w half. The half I didn’t I was carrying the convo mostly and it was exhausting I need people that can talk back to me lol.

I just suck at making connections in general so I assumed it was something I'm doing but I guess a lot of people are having the same issue so I feel less alone. I have found however that I've encountered the same people in various groups and we usually vibe on posts but somehow never get to messages. I'm also just terrible at keeping conversations going .

Hi from mass just moved from Ny

I think it depends on what type of maintenance you are and require. I’m chill 😎 you message me once a week, every other week, once a month? I’ll get back to you. Life is busy and I don’t expect people to message me back instantly and likewise, I’ll message when I get chance or have the energy to. ☺️ I’ve met some great people on here in person too! Bit of a chatterbox and I show I understand what you’ve said by giving an example of my own. Some people think it’s rude but that’s just my way of showing I understand and I presume I’ll get an example back. ☺️