Is it harder to be pregnant with a toddler or newborn with a toddler?

I’m currently pregnant with baby #2 (28 weeks) and I have an almost 5 year old (in October). I was always tired in my first trimester but luckily hubby takes over so I can sleep/nap when I get home from work 😭

I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant with my second and I have an almost 11 month old and I’m struggling lol. She wakes up every hour or so at night and doesn’t stop moving during the day. #SendHelp lol

I have a 3 & 1/2 yo and 34 weeks with twins. I literally can’t move some days because of the pelvic pain. I get hot so quickly and feel like I’m going to faint so we struggle going anywhere even places like soft play. The section pain last time wasn’t as bad as the pelvic pain I have now so I’m hoping fairly quickly post delivery I’ll be a bit more able to at least take her out of the house during baby naps

I have a 14 month old and I'm 21 weeks pregnant. It hasn't been bad, but pretty nervous about when my son arrives and I'll have to wrangle my toddler and a newborn.

@Patonia my God I feel this. My son is the same. Sleep is absolute pants

@Ceri-Ann this hit my soul. Bless you with twins! I had pelvic pain with my son, and my God was it agony post birth. They didn't tell me I couldn't push in certain positions or it makes it worse, so once the epidural and spinal.block wore off I literally couldn't walk for 2 weeks. The section pain was NOTHING compared !

@Jenna I feel like it'll be ok. It'll naturally fall into place. It'll be chaos the first few months but you'll find your rythym x

@s a r a 🥀 bless you. My husband is the same, anytime he can he's like DO YOU WANT A NAP lol

@Nikki at that time, my husband didn’t have to ask. He knew I was gonna nap regardless 🤣 plus I was having severe morning sickness like crazy 😭

@Nikki we’re booked for an elective so my pelvis will be doing zero work to get these babies out 😂

I have a 4 year old and 6 month old and it’s been quite stressful and pretty hard lately as the mum guilt I have for my first daughter is so bad as I feel like I barely have time for her anymore as I’m always having 2 hold baby or feed her or sterilising all her bottles my 6 month old doesn’t seem 2 nap long in the day and she’s very fussy atm so having 2 constantly keep her entertained and hold her a lot as she’s teething and going through separation anxiety x

@s a r a 🥀 ah maaan. I'm not puking but ugh my goodness the nausea is disgusting.

@Ceri-Ann good 😅😅 honestly section pain was a breeze compared. Pelvic pain is no joke

@Sarah oh bless you. You're giving her the BEST gift though, a sibling. A life long friend