Is anybody else having a hard time with sex?
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He's insinuating that he'd cheat on you because you're not into sex right now? That's so shitty.
Similar boat but postpartum and while my husband wishes things were going better in this area he doesn’t pressure me and is understanding why things are different and difficult. Hopefully yours can try harder to see it from your perspective
1. Fuck him for talking about having a mistress. That's bullshit. 2. I had to get on testosterone replacement to get my drive back.
Sorry you have to go through that! Definitely shitty thing to say you are caring his Baby!! If he has that much Need! He can go jerk off but saying he is getting a mistress is so wrong ! Don’t have sex under pressure. Remember you are creating life that is the most magical thing on earth!
My drive is gone, and has been for literal years (since I had my now 11 yr old). And my husband has never once been so cruel to insinuate that he might get a "mistress" or even SLIGHTLY pressure me about his "needs". That is gross behavior... You've got a hand, sir, use it. 😒
Yikes. Thats really awful for him to say. A marriage should be able to withstand not having the same amount of sex without the threat of a mistress. I’m sorry
Even as a joke he should not being saying anything like that knowing it will make you feel bad. 😕 There is a lot that is uncomfortable for me now that im almost 5 mo pregnant and that includes sex. My husband and I are very open and his is very mindful of only wanting to be intimate if i am feeling up to it and we have even worked on finding positions that are the most comfortable for me. you are the one who is pregnant so YOUR needs should be priority over his.
He is gross for saying. I completely understand how you feel when I was pregnant. I did not want to be touched. He scent made me gag.😂
He can absolutely be more loving and understanding. My drive has basically disappeared since being pregnant and my fiance doesn't pressure it at all. He gets it.