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You are right. It’s crazy he is asking you to move around a baby, he should be the one coming to visit the baby.
@Svetlana that’s what I’m saying I never said he could not come over and see the baby especially if he has a car
@Ellen Thankss because this is too much
in the nicest way possible too, men do not have the same instincts as women, hearing the baby cry you want to help them and find out whats wrong, they may not find a problem with it and let baby cry. They also may not even hear baby when their asleep, as moms we can hear that baby even if they take a deeper breath than normal.. ive seen way to many horror stories of dads shaking the babies because mom isn’t around and baby wont stop crying, ive even told my husband who knows better multiple times not to shake the baby (he NEVER has) im just too in my head about it
I agree with you, the baby should stay with you all the time until older. Especially if you let him come see the baby whenever. My husband started having his daughter over when she was about 10 months old, before that he would only see her at the mother's house
No baby needs mumma that early on! He needs to come to you, is it possible he could stay for a few weeks to help during the nights? As much as baby needs mummy it’s such a critical time to form bonds so would be good if dad could be around as much as possible too!
@Cass I stay with my parents so he won’t be able to stay over unless they say so but they alr said he can come for a few hours but not stay but I told him I’ll come to his house with the baby but he said he wants time to himself with the baby
I’m literally going through the same thing momma 😔
I agree. He should come over to you to visit but he can’t have the baby at his place that young without you there.
No way I’d . If he can’t wait then that’s not your problem. Personally I wouldn’t until baby is 6 months cos by then they will be eating solid
@Ky smh hopefully we get though it girl because these men nowadays are just heartless and selfish
Hes lucky you feel 3 months id wait a year 🤷🏽♀️
I wouldn't even be ok at 3 months. Young babies literally needs their mom. Dad can visit of course. From birth I'd an INSANE and very ignorant suggestion.
My 2nd bd tried the same thing honestly just stand your ground and don’t let anything slide once you do they will just make your life helllllll My 2nd bd isn’t even in my kids life. I say wait until the baby can talk if he doesn’t agree he can take you to court 🤷🏽♀️ and don’t let that intimidate you because it will work out in your favor. Just get a car asap
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Girl even 3 months is too soon
Babies that small shpuld absolutely not be away from their mothers
Even 3 months is generous Dont give him a specific time because when your baby is 3 months, i dont think you will feel comfortable Just say you can bring the baby to a meeting place or he comes to your place
@Aniya literally said then try to pin the bitter bm title on u
just a helpful tip: when you have the baby go file for custody. in the state of VA for an unmarried couple the state technically has custody of your baby & they grant initial custody to who files first previously lived in VA & went thru this
I agree and so would most judges. Newborns need their mama.