Dating while Pregnant

Hey guys, just a silly question really, has anyone had any experience of dating while Pregnant? It's really petty to be fair but my fiancé said he needs "some time and space" and he's started seeing this girl but they're "just friends". I'm finding that hard to believe and now we're trialing a seperation where we're essentially roommates and he has downstairs and I have upstairs. I was wondering how easy or I guess common it would be for me to even just look for a male friend so he can see how stupid he is being. I know fine well if I was behaving how he was he'd be super jealous and he wouldn't like it. I'm pretty sure he thinks he can get away with running away from the responsibility before baby gets here by doing lots of things we used to do with another girl. Basically what I'm wanting to do is make myself less "available" and show him if it was the other way around he wouldn't like it.... Am I being petty, probably, but I'm thinking it might be the only way to snap him out of his mid life crisis🤦🏻‍♀️

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Girl, I would advise you to focus on yourself and your unborn child. Once a man makes up his mind to do what he wants, nothing will change him. What you are planning to do will have more effect on you than it will on him. The questions you need to ask yourself are “Do I still love him? Is he worth it?” If you do, try your best and make it work if not you should leave. Let your child be your priority mama. You worth it and deserve better. The best to do is to work on yourself to become a better person than you were yesterday. How well do you know the guy u want to bring in your life? How sure are you he’s going to treat you better? Think about these questions girl. Remember it’s about how’s going to make you feel not him. I hope you get over this soon xx

Is it really worth it? Because if he truly loved you he would not be asking for “some time and space” or even seeing someone else while you are carrying HIS child. This is truly disrespectful even if he claims they’re just friends. He had all the time in the world to do that and he only decides he’s not happy when you’re already pregnant? I know it hurts a lot and I’m so sorry you are in this situation but as mentioned above I believe you should focus on yourself and your baby and let him do whatever he wants. At the end of the day we can’t force anyone to do right by us and if you end up meeting someone hopefully it’ll be bc you’ve moved on and not to make him “jealous” or make him change is mind

His* mind

You’re just wasting your time tbh. Your fiancé doesn’t want to commit to you and has another girl. He doesn’t need time and space he just wants an excuse and doesn’t want to be a father. He’s not worth it and he’s not a man. He’s a little boy.

You can date when pregnant but if you’re dating just to prove a point you’re wasting someone else’s time. And you probably will get hurt too and feel more resentment. Usually men who date pregnant women just have a fetish for it or if they do date you often they just don’t want a future with you. Unless they are really genuine. But when I was pregnant the guy that liked me was just attracted to me and didn’t want anything long term. Because they don’t want to help your child or be with a single mom.

Time and space while preggo ummmm no sir

I’d be breaking off the engagement and starting a new life with my baby and I. What he is doing is not okay at all.

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