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He thinks my mental health is just me being crazy but he doesn’t understand the way he acts during arguments is what drives my mental health to where I feel like I’m going insane
@Ashley exactly 🙃🙃 when i tell him about my mental health he says he understands how i can be feeling such a way but then he says that my life could be worse .
@Ashley the insults overtime is just so exhausting. He says i don’t pay attention to anything which is false. Like i fucking slipped on the stairs and his first reaction was calling me an idiot. Really feel loved in that moment 🙃
Same like how would you know how we feel. Our hormones are still everywhere
Yeah he yells at me when my daughter does something. They are children. Accidents happen he shouldn’t be blaming you at all
@Ashley right. They have no idea
@Ashley mine does similar but he gets flustered at the baby like she is a TODDLER thats what TODDLERS do!! They get cranky sometimes. Don’t get me wrong i get frustrated but his patience level is way lower then mine but don’t get mad at our kid just because he can’t control his anger.
Honestly, it’s just gonna get worst for him. He’s telling you how he truly feels about you in those moments; he holds his true emotions back until he’s fed up. Its honestly a red flag if you ask me, please take this as a warning, if he isn’t helping with your mental health now its just gonna keep getting worst.
Mine has anger issues too but thank GOD he would never insult me if I fell and was not my fault that is just too much maybe you guys need a break or something
@Verenisse he felt bad after and tried to make it up to me. He was concerned but in the act right after thats when he insulted me . It just gets frustrating when he does say these things when hes mad / shocked
@Mary well i brought it up to him one time seeing if thats how he actually feels about me . He says no . Mind when he does flip out its not all the time so idk its anger issues for sure with certain things
You should have told him you needed to feel bad when it happened not after you insulted me. Just feels to me he is using any excuse to insult you
@Verenisse yeah i did . I have gotten to him about it in the past too . He has gotten better over the years for sure i just wish he would stop all together . I told him he needs to seriously watch his mouth
He will never change but he better stop it more
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Honestly still a red flag you wanna be with someone that lets their anger out with you for the rest of your life?
@Mary people Who have anger issues will never change unless they get therapy and men are not known to get it
@Mary it isn’t a constant thing . He is usually pretty even tempered i get what yall mean tho
@Verenisse the Men you know wont; thats the people you surround yourself with
@Mary Hispanic Men and Black men do t like nothing that has to do with therapy or doctors lol
Honestly I cant tell you what to do but as I tell my friends there’s always someone else out there that’s actually gon respect you fully for you and love you for you. But if thats what your happy and satisfied with.
@Verenisse The men you know I know alot of colored men in my life that do therapy and take care of their mental being.
@Mary that’s great but most of them do not that’s what I’m trying to tell you plus I’m not the one from the original comment
Going through the same thing. I’m just so tired of it even tho our good days are way more than bad days. I just don’t know if I could take it anymore with these bad days because it’s worse than just a little argument