This sounds like exceptionally controlling behaviour. I would look to move out, if you don’t have the means to i would expect that locsl Womens charities would be able to support you under the circumstances
@Chris it’s his dad thats locking things up
Oh wow! I would try to communicate that this is pretty much ignorant behavior. Locked on everything? Then restricting you from cooking over one thing? If that doesn’t go well I would certainly look into leaving. Can you financially afford to go?
Unfortunately No
Find a way to get the H out! ASAP!