This week a mom said to me…
If this hits deep, it’s OK.
You can exhale.
You’re not alone.
No, I’m not living inside your brain, but I get to have the hard, deep and taboo conversations with other couples and this is something I hear regularly.
You want to make this work.
You love your beautiful family.
But there are parts that are not how you imagined it.
Hurts.
Resentment.
Shame.
You can let those things continue to work in the dark and eat at you, or you can bring them to the light and make something different to your relationship and your life together.
If change for the better is what you crave, want, NEED… I’m here to help you too. Reaching out about things being imperfect might feel scary, that’s okay. But leaving things the way the are until everything crumbles… that’s scarier.
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I definitely hear this. My husband and I have had some ups and downs and things have gotten better, but we were once in a really dark place and sometimes it feels like we're going to go back there. We're working with a new couples therapist now and he seems really good for us. So, I'm hoping