PMDD (PMS) is ruining my life

My mood swings are just horrendous and I’m unable to be a mother to my child during my pms time of the month. I’m so irritated by everything he does I’m so tired and dizzy I can barely move, my breasts are so painful it’s unbearable. The doctors have been completely useless in dealing with it and have offered no solutions just to carry on antidepressants. I get so behind with everything because I am practically bed ridden. My periods aren’t even very long or heavy since having a baby and aren’t exactly that painful anymore. The pains I get are more of this scratching kind of pain in my womb rather than cramps. I just can’t cope with it anymore, I feel like the worst mother because I’m so awful when I’m due on and I don’t mean to do it I genuinly cannot help it. He is even learning my mood swings and copying how I react when I’m hormonal which is causing behavior issues for him.
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As someone who suffers from pmdd i completely empathize. My therapist and I were talking about it today and she thinks all of us autistic women/afab people have pmdd. It’s so disabling! I am only functioning 1 week a month. But I also used to think my kids when they were little were picking up on my hormonal imbalances cuz they saw me but I later learned that I am autistic and so are my kids. A lot of afab people are misdiagnosed with a bunch of things like anxiety and depression when it’s just autism. So I mean that helped me have more grace with myself. I still struggle with it but at least I understand myself better. I didn’t know I was autistic until I was in my 30s. I’m just saying you aren’t alone and what you Are going through is valid!

Only thing that stopped my pmdd was getting pregnant it was horrendous hope you find a solution x

I heard about a medication that is just for pms /pmdd. May be worth looking into. Because yeah I agree it sucks

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