Alone During pregnancy

I feel so alone I don’t talk to my bd all my friends don’t really message me or invite me out. I really spend my days at home just watching tv alone. I wish I had one genuine friend to hang out with but idk how to find one. I enjoy doing g things and hanging out just idk I feel like I’m everyone’s friend but when it’s time to show up for me no one’s mine. And pregnancy brain doesn’t help I wanted to enjoy this experience and get out maybe go in dinner dates and little events. But it seems like me and my little guy is gonna be all alone in this world. How did you all find genuine friends?

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Awww I’m sorry that’s happening to you. Message me. We in the same borough honey

Single mom here even after pregnancy postpartum finding yourself you never really have genuine friends My friends know I have a child, but they still keep inviting me out at the most random times smh it gets annoying after a while

I feel the same way my childless friends make me feel left out and dont invite me out anymore. Mom friends are type boring

@Noelle honestly idk about mom friends yet because I haven’t gotten there. But I still wanna have fun I just can’t drink/smoke anymore I can still go outside.

@Batouli half my friends have kids which is the funny part. While they were pregnant I atleast visit them or reached out on the regular. All I get are memes sent to me on ig.

Same here😅. Let’s connect 💕I’m in nyc as well

@Idasia you said it right soon as you get pregnant everybody disappears. I wanted to be outside but my hubby was always worried about me so I really didn’t go anywhere. Well unless it was with him anyway. @Batouli I am the biggest supporter when it comes to postpartum I know how it feels and I am here if anyone needs me.

Same, I WFH and live alone, spend most of my days alone. I thought when ppl found out I was pregnant I'd get more attention or something. I have go to family if I want to see ppl I know. I have a doula now, and a therapist now.

While i was preg i went through the same thing. One thing i wish i would have reminded myself is the joy accomplishment and fulfillment you will receive when you receive your new baby. I know its hard to remember when were scrolling through social media only noticing and liking the mommy and me photos and wedding pictures. But ... I will say that this part is truly a blessing and hold on to your peace because your going to need your quiet time to recover and to rest real soon. Hth also please feel Free to hmu id love to chat. ❤️

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