Mean moms

I’ll start with a bit of back story. I have a former best friend of decades and we stopped speaking years ago (very long story). Anyways I tried To connect with a mom on here to no avail and was left hanging after sending a message. Fine no harm no foul. Only to find out from a mutual friend of my former that that person I reached out to knows my former, sent her a screen shot of my profile and asked if I was the one she had talked about. Anyways this went on to a bash fest and my former and this person I had reached out to just going on and on and the person I reached out to saying things like ‘I would never, I choose you over her’. I know this is truth because the mutual friend was there. I am in my 30s and am dumbfounded by the high school antics that are happening here. I’m just curious how someone who doesn’t even know you can be so mean for no apparent reason? I already find that at this season in my life and my age it’s hard to make new friends and connections. Is this why? Is it because we’re all just mean for some reason? My mind is blown and I can’t believe I’m even typing this story out because it’s just beyond me how people in their 30s can act this way. At the end of the day, people can have choices about who they connect with I understand that. But just going to this extent? Just ignore me if you don’t want to connect, keep it to yourself and move on! No feelings hurt! My mutual friend has chosen to now distance herself from the former because of what she witnessed. I truly hope there are people out there that are genuine and true. Because I’m starting to feel defeated trying to make new friends.

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I’ve had an experience recently where I couldn’t believe that some women act they way that they do. Even in person. So I understand how you’re feeling. It really sucks😔

I’m so sorry to read this! Some adults need to grow up but sounds like you dogged a bullet 🔫. Always here if you need a chat x

Oh bless you! That’s not fun at all. I’m currently moving playgroups from one I started going to with a former friend. I was sat there the other week, it was awkward and I felt they had become cliquey with some of the other mums. So drawing a line, I’ll just find somewhere else! I feel like this is just what some women are like x

I'm so sorry to read this. It definitely sucks. The fact that you are hurt by this shows your decency. High school, mean girl antics are also spread into the corporate world where people who are approaching 60 act this way. People like that are low vibrational. They exist to show us what it looks like if we do not evolve and grow. Reach out if you want to chat 🙂

Hey, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Some human beings never grow up until they do or don’t. I don’t know if that makes sense? It’s rough out there. I feel very similarly about how rough it is to make friends and people in general. 🥹

Sounds like your former friend is an immature and likely insecure person, and your mutual friend is a pretty decent friend for letting you know and distancing herself. So there are good friends and there are 👎 ones. You are at least aware enough to cut those people out, so good for you. I always say I'd rather have 1 true friend than 50 fake ones. Yes, it's hard, but real connections are out there, so don't give up. Feel free to check out my group if you are interested in connecting with women who are seeking genuine support and friendship on here: shorturl.at/1FLEw

Women should be bringing other women up not putting them down.. word of advice, F them, talk to people that talk back, it is hard making friends in our 30’s I’ve found that, I literally have less than a handful of friends and my mums in there 😂😂

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