Step mom

So I can't say I'm a step mom bc the babe mom doesn't want me to be a mom to the kids. I do take care of them like my own. Anyway how many of you guys can get along with the baby momma. The baby momma that I have to put up with hates me for idk why. I have not done anything to her besides me telling her all about herself bc she want to my baby daddy trying to get info out of him about me. I did apologize to her about it. Now I can't ask her about if we can get the kids at all. Then she want to talk badly about me to there son so he don't like me and think me and my son taking away his daddy from him when we are not. I been nothing but nice to her and respect her boundaries on me not being a step mom or anything to the kids. It always has to be drama with her. She just tryed to give my boyfriend something she war when they got married to give to me he didn't take it. At this point I'm over it and want to tell her about herself again but then at the same time I want to be the bigger person but I'm over keeping my mouth shut to please everyone. My boyfriend don't care what I say to her he just want to know what he is getting into when she blows his phone up about it bc she can't be a woman and come to me. When I told her about herself she was going to fight me when she pregnant and with my son around. I don't do yelling for any kind of fighting around my son bc he don't need to see but she don't care to do it around her kids. It comes down to being patty and telling her all about herself again or be the bigger person and send her a nice message about why we can't get along for the kids. If my baby daddy had a girlfriend and she asked about getting the kids I wouldn't care bc she putting in the effort to get the know the kid and she that she is a good woman but who am I to know what I'm talking when it comes to that.

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I think your husband should step in more and put her in her place. If she dorsnt respect it he can go to court to get everything written so it can be less discussion on some topics

@🌻Dej🌻 he has said stuff to her and it still don't charge and the one day I want to say what I want to I can't. There already going though court

Then weight it out. Start ignoring her.she does things for a response and reaction. She’ll get tired soon . She doesn’t want to see y’all happy let alone him. Dont allow her to take up so much of y’all space

@🌻Dej🌻 I don't say anything to her when she starts on her shit. I keep everything bottled up when it comes to her and I'm tired of it but I still have to be the one to get talk bad of and get told I can't do shit when it comes to the kids

Because she know it hurts you. Trust me I’m in the same boat but I cut all communications with her and my partner keep their conversations to a minimum to avoid the drama

I know how you feel. My fiancées baby mama is high conflict. She would even come to my work and harass me there. I have had to block her on all social media and I don’t ever see her or have contact with her now and things have been a lot more peaceful since. That’s really the best advice I can give. These kinds of situations are very difficult, just try not to let her get to you because that’s ultimately what she wants. Like @🌻Dej🌻 said she just doesn’t want to see y’all happy

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