Out of topic but what would you girls do….
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If he's pointing the finger at u, blaming u of cheating. Not always but half the time it's because they're doing. My baby daddy been blaming me for cheating the whole time and in the end he ended up cheating on me with 3 women. As for the baby, whatever u feel the baby feels too. So no matter what he does try your best to relax. At this point your baby matters the most and always has to come first. If he's spending money on hoe on only fans u should call him out and tell him that for every dollar he spends on them, he should spend double on the baby. That's what I told my like wtf are u going to send ur kids money instead of taking out a girl to the bar, because child support is going to kill ur wallet. Lol
Sorry for the rant lol
@Veronica 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼I’ve let everything slip in this whole relationship. Most of the girls around me have been saying he must be guilty of something as he accuses me of all sorts of things it’s so stupid on half of the things. Even went to get a drink from the bar and because it was a male serving me I was “ cheating” considering this man was my best friend ex partner who put her through hell. I’ve just tried to have a conversation with him and the only thing he had to reply is “ I’ve just taken you on holiday your starting to push me away” alls because I’ve asked for him to come home show me some love and affection🙄 He works hard so we can have a stable life, however constantly on only fans and when he comes home he will have his tea and a bath then won’t speak to me throughout the night as he’s on his Xbox. Which I’ve explained that’s his zone out time and it’s just like me watching my series but it doesn’t take a lot to come home sit with your partner and show her some love🙄
@Heather thank you👏🏼👏🏼cheating is not just physical. I’ve told him I don’t mind him going on porn even though some women are against that, but only fans? That’s crossing the line when you’re paying to see another women’s body but when I ask for even a cuddle or some love it’s the end of the world. I don’t know how to move on or what to do next because this conversation happened more than once and I shouldn’t have to have it again.
Yeah he’s projecting when accusing you of physically cheating because he’s most likely doing it himself or thinking about it. As for the only fans, you told him you don’t like it and he continues, so disrespectful especially when you’re pregnant. You deserve better
Based off of this alone, and general male human patterns.... He has definitely cheated. No it's not healthy even if you didn't have a newborn, so it's worse now that you do. This displays that he is not only a cheater, he's also manipulative, emotionally abusive, controlling, insecure, immature, and protecting his guilt and anger onto you. I don't know how long you've known him, but if not much beyond your relationship, you don't know each other very well, and with this foundation, you're better off working on your exit and creating a beautiful life for you and baby without the stress.
Is this healthy no. Cheating is not just physical I've had sex with another person. Cheating is doing anything against the boundaries/rules of the relationship. You've told him once already you don't like only fans, so whats the consequences for that? Do you want to stay knowing he's going to continuously victim blame, shift the Blame, etc for something that he's done against the boundaries?