@Cheri very unhappy with our situation & don’t know If it’ll get worse before it gets better which is why I think we should just be apart & I get myself together. I’ve had so much rage resentment towards him over our situation which is definitely wrong of me. But I don’t feel like I have the support from him really. But we love eachother dearly and I’m scared for him to feel like he’s happier without us. Sorry your going through this especially while feeling alone. That’s a horrible feeling but I’m here if you need to talk
I hear you. I do. I had resentment, too. And the moment he left, I realized so much I was upset about was insignificant. I guess my only thought is to make sure he knows your thoughts/feelings and maybe try to work on things before making such a final decision. But that is just me. I don't know all, of course :) Message me!! I see you as incognito
I don't know if what I have to say will be helpful but here is my situation: I got married. Had twins. We moved for him to have a different job and for us to try to find some happiness in an area...a few times. I think I had some PPD, too. My twins were micropreemies and one had significant health needs. I was, and am, so very lonely. And I think that definitely had an effect. My husband recently left me and wants a divorce and it has made me think a lot about my feelings during the relationship. If you are married, I would say do everything y'all can to fix it and let him into your thoughts/feelings. Lord knows I know what it feels like to be blindsided. If you aren't married and you truly cannot see yourself with this person forever, I think you know leaving would be good. But it seems like maybe you aren't unhappy with him, just the situation. Your situation throughout your relationship could change multiple times. If he is a solid dude, man, you are lucky.