Is your relationship with your mother since having a baby better then ever or not as good??
I say this because, since having my little 1 (17months old) my relationship with my mother hasn’t been any better and for that matter worse.
She has those odd comments about my parenting & not really been there for me mentally nor emotionally. we both never really had the best relationship together and I have realised that, she has had a lot of past bad experiences.
brings up alot about it and I definitely don’t want to bring my daughter that way because of my past. No parent should bring/put on their past on their children, they don’t deserve that.
Anyways, don’t want to go onto much about it but yeah, just wanted to know if anyone has gone through it and what have you done??
At this point, I just want to live my life the way I want, feel comfortable with.
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@Charlotte aww sorry. And thanks. 🙂
Worse, she’s incredibly judgemental of my parenting
I’m almost no contact, speak when we have to and see each other in passing or at family events. On FB she’s nanna of the year but in reality she’s never spent time with us away from family birthdays etc.. had it my whole life so I’m used to her ways but it’s shocked my fiancé and his family 🤣 All about breaking those generational curses or whatever the kids say 😅
@Hollie ahh sorry. And yes definitely about that. Don’t want our children/kids to follow through it all. 😊 xo
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I have very little contact with my mum! I think she’s met my son about 4/5 times and she isn’t interested in him. I just focus on my little family (baby and fiancé) and the rest is outside noise. It’s really shit and it took me a long time to get to this point but if you want to chat about it my inbox is open ❤️❤️