I’m a brat. So I quite literally do whatever possible to annoy him🤣 granted this is all talked about and agreed upon before we even got together.
I send him a kinky text/photo, or start rubbing his thighs/belly/back and go down lower 💁🏻♀️ I have no probs initiating
At 13 years together I just tell him what I want him to do and that gets him in the mood. We never follow through with what we say we want though lol