So fucking tired of my husband ( kind of long )

So I’m married and I have a 18month old daughter. My family and I just relocated to a different state a few months ago. We don’t have any family nearby and is still getting adjusted. My husband works overnight and sleeps during the day. I’m with the baby all day and do everything ( literally ) I recently found out I was pregnant ( I’m about 8 weeks ) I have mixed emotions about it because we have no family close by to help and I mentally have been going through a lot postpartum wise with my baby and just being alone and not having no one around to help me and not being around my normal doctors I have back home and the stresses of just having to rebuild somewhere else . I made a doctors appointment for an obgyn for tomorrow. When I woke up this morning I was already overstimulated because my baby is just climbing all over me while I’m on the toilet ( I’ve been constipated for over 2 weeks and in pain ) and I was just there numb. My husband woke up and came in the bathroom and I said, “hey idk if I can have another kid I feel mentally unstable” he goes, “ oh your just scared you always do this” I say, “ I’m not scared but I’m just really overwhelmed and I think when I go tomorrow I’m going to weigh my options” … he proceeded to go off and call me selfish and tell me not to piss him off and why does his opinion not matter and all this shit. He starts banging the walls and slamming the doors . This is also the same man who can’t even change a shit diaper because he doesn’t like the smell. I told him that I’m the one who mostly does everything and even before we moved and he got switched to this overnight schedule so my decision is going to outweigh his because I’m the one who is carrying most of the burden. What do you guys think am I wrong or what ?