This is my life too I’m so unhappy but really don’t want to leave him it’s so hard
Sorry that you're going through this. Could you find a babysitter or part time caretaker so you can take some time for yourself and feel less crazy? I am also pregnant and have a LI around yours age and I'm definitely planning on having the toddler in full time care while we adjust to life with a newborn again
Probably unpopular but I think you are wrong, that baby is also his and he has a right to his say. If you were feeling mentally unstable then you guys should have been cautious. Also being a sahm the majority of the child rearing falls to you. I’d find ways to destress because you’re in the thick of it right now, it will get better.
I don't think you're wrong. If he's unwilling to help with the baby that you currently have, it doesn't make sense for you guys to have another one. Also the yelling, slamming doors, hitting walls, etc, are NEVER okay. I don't care the situation he needs to learn to communicate like an adult.
Your body your choice. Being a stay at home mum you do get the majority of bringing lil one up that's generally how it goes. I was the same, husband worked in the day, I didnt have any help I still did the nights with baby so he could sleep for work as he earns us the money provides for us. X