I need an outside view on this

So my fiance just got his car in driving conditions again after the axle broke , and I don't want him having a car due to him going out of town to cheat on me with some chick who reached out to me about this after a post I tagged him in when I made a post of us being together for 6 months had pics and everything showing us being in a relationship . So I don't want him having a car due to that n I feel bad that I don't want him to but he has changed since then by alot since then , now his asking once he gets the rest of the stuff up to date on car If he can drive 7 hours to see his ex coworker who is like his best friend (the excoworker is male) for a weekend and I'm 36 weeks pregnant and i don't want him to since I'm almost 37 weeks and he thinks I'll go into labor before our sons due date, but I also don't want him to go since the incident over a year ago that happened but I do want him to see his friend but idk why I don't want him to have a car other then that but I do trust him he earned my trust back but I'm wanting an outside view on this so any feed back is welcomed
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I wouldn’t considering the possibilities. They’re far too great and he could see him after the baby.

@Yasmine that's also true but I think he wants to do it now if not soon so he don't have to worry about me and a baby and only has to worry about me going in to labor for the trip there and I'm thinking he planning on doing the updating on the car on payday if not the next day , and I want to understand why I don't want him having a working car when I trust him

If he gained your trust back then why are you against him using the car? Sounds like you still don’t trust him, which is fair because he cheated

@Sam it's not that , it's more of a feeling he don't need one . We have 3 cars 1 not running 2 now are running , I don't feel like he'll cheat I feel like he will be out an about and ignore my calls if something happens that I can't or shouldn't drive

Seems to me you still have some trust issues or haven’t completely forgiven him. Which is understandable given what he did.

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ what can help with that ?

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