Would y'all feel offended?

We are going on baby #2 but baby #1 I had to have a C-section because after five hours of pushing he didn't want to come out... There were complications during his birth. But anyways I mentioned my concerns with this baby and being scared of not being able to push him out and my baby father says I have a big vagina so I should have no problem this time. WTF does that even mean!? I feel like my labia is a tad big like I don't have a cute petite skinny vagina but it kind of hurt my feelings ? And I feel like today's society makes you feel like you have to have a vagina that looks not developed? Lol...like do most woman not have vaginas like that? He makes me feel like mine is like gross or something Idk I feel like I'm being emotional for feeling a type of way about his comment and looking in to deep?
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I do think men don't think before they talk but I would 100% suggest saying something. Your feelings are hurt accidental, or on purpose. Get to the bottom of it if you think he mean malicious of it and if you think he didn't tell him that you don't mean to cause a fight but his words hurt. In this case you're not overreacting. Society does push that opinion of a woman's part on blast a lot.

I feel like you should bring it up. I know men don't always know how to say things properly. But also maybe educate him that the pelvic bone is the main issue in birthing

Yes I would be offended. He also has no idea how it works. I'm sorry. Unless he was trying to make you laugh and thought you knew he wasn't being serious. He better give you flowers and tell you your v** is perfecf

he’s an idiot because the size of your vagina has nothing to do with your ability to push out a baby. i would be offended too

I hate men 🥲 i would 100% be offended like wtfff ? If it’s something you will continue to think about for longer than a day then yes bring it up because odds are while you are replaying that same sentence in your head your babys father barely even thought about it when it came out of his mouth. & hit him upside his head for us please

I’d be thinking he’s an idiot for not knowing how babies are born or how the female anatomy works and getting a massive ick.

The size of your labia has nothing to do with your cervix or vagina. He’s a moron if he thinks that and needs to look it up in a school textbook. Men are so ill educated these days 🤦🏼‍♀️ Mama, some of us have outies! My girls can barely stay inside my knickers without one side popping out to say hi, it’s totally normal. Don’t let him upset you and tbh he should be more embarrassed that he doesn’t know how his children are born.

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