@Chí how do you manage this situation? I get lost on this
Well I don’t talk to my mother anymore because she cut of contact with me after I told her to stop saying negative stuff all the time. (Basically she came over one night at 9pm to drop off food but she couldn’t do that without having some nasty comments about my home being untidy, I was newly pregnant and had a 8 month old who was sleeping at the time… anyway she just left and that was it, haven’t spoken since and she said she won’t speak to me until I APOLOGISE) So I’ve just moved on for my own peace of mind and let her do her own thing. If she cares about me or her grandchildren enough she’ll make the effort to amend the relationship. I’ve always had to be the bigger person even as a kid… and I’m tired of that now. That was my limit. You either let them know you have a limit or it’s just one of them things you have to kinda, endure because they won’t change.
Thanks for sharing @Chí it's very helpful
Having the same issue. I can relate & empathise