Oh I’m so sorry, how are you feeling how is your baby ? This is awful, I can only imagine your pain Personally first thing I would have done if I was there is check on you and little one sorry no one did ! Don’t be so hard on yourself it happens you are certainly not a failure !!! I wish for more solidarity between mums🥲
@Nana I’m feeling a bit better and baby is okay. Thank you for asking. She has a wee lump on her head and I checked her over fully and made sure she was okay. I am the same as you and would’ve checked on the mum and baby to see if I could help in any way. It was more because when I had help one week at swimming with changing etc I asked if anyone wanted help with babies so they could get dressed etc and when I was vulnerable and could’ve done with a wee bit of help or just reassured / calmed down, no one helped.
It happens, babies hurt themselves occasionally. If she really hurt herself I wouldn’t be worrying what the other mums were doing and would take her to get checked out.