I would speak with the nursery. It’s not right but they need a chance to put it right before officially complaining. I expect they assumed she was more capable than she is with wiping etc and have left her to it innocently
It could also be she’s not gone to the toilet when she’s needed too or not asked to go… it happened to mine when starting school, they don’t ask or don’t want to stop playing so results in accidents… don’t assume it’s a wiping issue
Definitely bring it up with the nursery, but then if it happens again take it higher. It might just be that they aren't helping her wipe, or maybe she's holding it too long and is then smearing. Hopefully once they're made aware they'll be on top of it and it won't happen again.
Thanks everyone!
I would speak to nursery, and ask if they are helping, or if your daughter says she can do it herself. My daughter says she can, but she definitely can't, so I asked nursery if they could check after she's been
I would mention it but don't complain straight away. Just say you've noticed poo in her underwear