advice?

i’m currently 12 weeks pregnant and i’ve started talking to this guy, and i’m unsure on when i should tell him i’m expecting. i feel like doing it to late/when we get serious would be kinda wrong of me, but i don’t wanna spring it on him if this isn’t gonna go anywhere. any advice on when would be best to tell him?

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Definitely tell him dont start with secrets

if you’ve had your scan and all is well, definitely tell him straight away, that way he can’t throw it back in your face and say you led him on, tried to use him etc etc. and at least that way you know whether he’s worth keeping around x

Tell him now

Coming from someone who I met my current man (now fiancé) while I was 36 weeks pregnant with my daughter and 25 weeks pregnant with a child with him. Start out and make sure he knows you’re pregnant. If you want a man to step up, make it known, if you’re just looking for a partner, make it know. You have to be blunt about it because it’s no longer your heart on the line. Every emotion you feel, your baby will feel too. If he’s okay with it he will tell you. Just be honest hunny. My daughter and my man are best friends and he calls himself her dad. Just make sure y’all are on the same page with this. Be honest hunny. That’s the only way it’ll work out.

Tell him now before you get to attached and he decides it’s not what he wants!

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