FET Sucess and Mental/Emotional State
Has anyone had both a successful and an unsuccessful FET? Do you remember being in a different mental/emotional state, or having and specific mantras/tils/etc regarding your mental emotional perspective or state when it DID work? I've had chemicals in the past and all additional testing checked okay. I'm going for my 3rd transfer in October and praying for a baby.
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Just stay positive and try to talk to your baby, they'll come to you!
I’m not sure if this helped anything more than my mind, but as we were leaving the clinic after my FET, the nurse who had helped me looked at me and said, “stay positive!” in a Caribbean accent and my partner and I repeated it back to each other (half joking) for the next two weeks, and the transfer stuck! Sometimes it’s nice to have a little mantra to hold onto. 🩷🩷 good luck!!
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Ime it didn’t really make a difference with which ones worked. I was not optimistic at all about the 2 that worked and was in a better mindset with some of the ones that didn’t. Embryos just do their thing, failed transfers are really hard. hang in there.