Ohmygoodness I’m so glad you asked this because this is where I’m at too
Im in the middle of the oh crap method and oh crap is right. Never been covered in more poop in my life. And it is definitely taking my guy longer than the quoted 3 days. We’re also having issues with poop. I’m going to stick to it but I’m exhausted from it and I don’t blame you for looking g for other ways especially with carpet.
I started, read the book “Oh Crap: Potty Training” with my first a couple years ago and took the Big Little Feelings course as a refresher recently. He did perfectly with pee and is struggling with poop. I find the bare butt method (from both those resources) work well, but carpet will make it tougher for sure! I use just pants unless we’re out of the house for a long time, then I use training underwear from Target.