Anxiety all the time?

I was just about to post this, the first trimester is so hard for so many reasons including you can't feel the baby move yet so you don't know how things are going🥺 for reassurance I read that after hearing baby's heartbeat the risk of miscarriage falls to 3% or less. that's what I'm trying to hold on to. Hang in there, we will be able to feel our babies soon, I'm also 10 weeks!

@Mariana It's such a nerve wracking time! I am glad to know that statistic that does help a lot! I have been trying to tell myself you have almost made it through week ten and I will be at week 11 on Friday which feels like a big accomplishment so far! Just really wanna get to the second trimester I'm so impatient lol. I have my NIPT testing today so that's super exciting as well

Omg yes, I lost our first baby at 20 weeks back in June because my water broke unexpectedly. I thought I was a wreck then but this pregnancy?! I am a bundle of fear! I want this baby so bad and I’ve been so concerned about miscarriage but while there is no safe zone until you hear that baby cry, just like Mariana said, the odds are definitely in our favor. And it helps to remind yourself (myself) that it is totally out of our control and worrying won’t change anything. Wishing you (us) a smooth, stress free, healthy pregnancy with a beautiful little one at the end of it all.

@Candyce I'm so sorry about your loss of your prior baby and I hope all the best for this pregnancy. It is definitely anxiety inducing but that is really good advice about not having any control. That's one thing I struggle with since I'm very obsessive over having control but it's something I can't control so it's better not to worry myself sick. Especially since worrying can not be good for the baby. I appreciate the support! I wish us the best in this pregnancy and healthy happy babies ❤️