ik scream time is not ideal but it keeps then distracted from realizing they are sitting on the potty
once there is a level of excitement then you can implement it in her routine. once she gets up in the morning she can sit on the potty or before a nap or before you leave the house
ALSO important to use a puppy pad or something that soaks up pee in her car seat too in case of an accident in the car:)
you can also face her towards the back of the toilet and put toys or a colouring page on the back of the toilet
put the potty in front of the TV, gather a bunch of toys and books and snacks and get her to sit on the potty and play with her and keep her distracted until she goes then have a HUGE celebration hahaha she will eventually get the hype of using the potty!! or you can put cheerios in the toilet and tell her to make them float and i’ve seen some moms use food colouring and they get to choose what colour they want to use when they use the potty to die their poop or pee whatever colour