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I don’t want 2 BDs, but my current one cheated so now I’m in the position of having to possibly be okay with having multiple men in my lives fathering different children …….$ Hp lol j her

Tbh… my first was my ex husband who abused and treated me like shit. 6 yrs later I’m pregnant with the child of thee most amazing human being and he will be my last and only. After this, we either have another or I’m not having anymore.

@Pamela Noelle same I had one as a teen when I didn’t know any better and thought that was a normal relationship 9 years later at 24 I had another baby in January I’ve had a restraining order against #1 for 5 years

It is what it is 🤷‍♀️

@Niah proud of you for protecting yourself!!! 🥰🥰🥰

Yanno I feel judged AF however BD1) no he’s no the most present father to our boy, but when we had him I was planning our wedding and I didn’t imagine my life with anyone else however that changed quick! I saw a different side to him annnnd along came BD2) whooo well let’s say… the only good that man has down is give me my 2nd loving wee man who makes up 1/2 of my world! I’ll always love my first baby daddy but not like that! He loves our child and he shows my other boy attention love and gives him the best cuddles! He runs up to the door when he arrives 🥹 it’s kinda sweet but he’s moved on and that’s cool because we didn’t work but I love his new girlfriend (I do now, it’s been a hard process) and her little girl I treat the same as they treat my other boy! Baby dad 2…. I despise he’s never bothered or paid for or met MY son! But I can whole heartedly say I did it and I’m doing it with the help of my village which includes baby dad 1 and his new family! ♥️

So honestly I was the one who only wanted one and my son’s father put me in a tough situation when I was pregnant and cheated so I left. Fast forward I now have two (married to the second) we have two amazing girls and we have our rough times but I feel like once you get into 3+ then you have to really think. But I know it’s truly situational dependent

I don't think it's ideal, but life rarely works out how we ideally see it, so it is what it is 🤷‍♀️ I wouldn't judge someone for that!

I hate my first one hopefully my second one ain’t worst than my first one

My sister has 4, very complicated but gorgeous little ones and she does an amazing job

I have two bdz and honestly the 1st one was abusive and the 2nd well it’s complicated and at the end of it yes I wish I had all my babies with my ex husband but it didn’t work out that way my children are a blessing and I’m doing my best and they have a great life and their mother is happy .I think it’s worst some woman just keep having a baby by the same man that makes them miserable because they don’t want the stigma of having multiple BDs but it’s really not anyone’s business and why make the same mistake twice ?!

I have 6 kids and 3 baby daddies 🤷. I don't count the first one tho lol so to me I just have two. I married my second one and we have a daughter together but we divorced and I have 4 kids with the current one, been with him for almost ten years now

Personally, I don’t even like having one bd 😂 it’s real ghetto!!! But I’m in a new relationship and this’ll be my last because I refuse lol.

I only have 1. One and only. I don’t judge the ones who do though. My oldest sister has 3. One child with baby daddy #1. One child with baby daddy #2 and she’s currently with her 3rd kid father. Sometimes, I (and our other siblings) do wish she take things slow and not rush into things.. Her oldest child is on the spectrum and his father couldn’t handle him. So I believe my sister got full custody. Middle child, I think the father cheated on my sister, so she left. Third child, the father could do better at being a father and partner and not have my sister do everything 🤷🏻‍♀️ My brother in law, he has 2 baby mamas. Two with baby #1 and one (possibly 3) with baby #2. After they split, she’s all of a sudden pregnant with twins.. but his family told him to get a DNA test. He’s now in a different relationship. My husband and I feel the same way about not having more than 1 baby daddy/mamas.

For me personally I wouldn’t and have never wanted more than 1 baby dad, luckily for me my two babies have the same dad and I won’t be having anymore, not judging anyone who does have 2 though