Baby fever

lol probably a bad idea! Sit on those feelings a bit and see how you feel the next time you don’t sleep at night 😆

In my opinion, I had twins on march 25th - a boy and a girl so I got the best of both worlds. With that, I could not imagine handling both of them alone. When I’m burning out, my partner is able to step in and be the entertainer. Whether it’s your baby daddy or anyone else you have in your support system - I would highly consider having someone else present to help you with LOs so young that need so much attention. I would also take tomorrow and think about everything you’re doing - then double it. Again, this is just from my experience. I know women who have raised twins with a husband working full time in a state to state travel job so I know it can be done alone because women are incredible. Let me know what you decide! I’m curious ‘ 🤣

I thought I could have 2 with being a single mom and I was wrong. My partner is dad # 2 but he's probably going to be gone soon and just imagining being alone is terrifying even the little he helps with makes Soo much the difference. If you have great mental health and a good support system and you think financially you can do it I believe in following your heart but you have to think of the quality of life for your kids too

@McKenna to update you, I have decided against it. I have time to have another baby and I don’t need to rush it. My desire to have 2 under 2 doesn’t need to be fulfilled and I can still have littles one close in age. Instead I decided to start dating again to find a real man who can be his step daddy and have more kids with. My current baby daddy is a good dad and we’re friends but I don’t need to complicate things more than they already are with him

@Zoe this is such a great decision I could cry. I’m so glad you came to a decision that will work best for you, your baby and y’all’s future! Good luck girl! I’m rooting for you!!

@McKenna thank you love ❤️❤️ appreciate your kind words!