Second baby

So my husband and I have always said we wanted a big family with at least 3 kids that were spaced a couple years apart. After having my daughter I’m highly reconsidering that because she has been a handful (she’s a colic baby and can’t be set down without crying) and I honestly couldn’t imagine doing it again, especially with a toddler under foot. I know all babies are different, and we’re only a month in with our first so no big decisions need to be made right now. I’m just seeing if anyone else with multiples have had similar feelings and if they were glad they had more than 1.

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3 under 2 ! She was the missing piece to complete our family 🤍

Try looking into fascial therapy, colic is nothing but a doctors excuse! Lo is most likely uncomfortable and has strained muscle, just something to consider!! You can do things at home to help

It is too early to say all these, it is normal to feel that way. You are a new mom. Im a mom of 5, When I first had my son, I wasnt ready for second third and so on. LOL. But you know what , when it happens u just wing it. Just do it. My eldest is 17 now, and I have a newborn 🤭

Not all babies are the same. My first was such an easy baby really we were very spoiled with her she started getting a little more difficult at 8 months and now she's an insane 2 year old. My second is honestly a really difficult baby she's almost 5 weeks now and only within the past week have things really started calming down with her but she still needs to be held by me 98% of the day which is hard to do with a toddler as well. But also I don't regret having her and it's so sweet seeing how excited her big sister is by her. I can't wait to see their bond grow as baby becomes more aware

I have 2 under 2 and I wanted a third one but I'm also honestly reconsidering... It might change but this has been a total nightmare. We are struggling so hard 😭 my husband was a maybe on the third and he is pretty much a hard no now. It's ok to change your plan but it's also ok to wait and see how you feel later on. The first 3 months are just horrible.

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