Do it on the second! The little boy will be fine if he doesn’t go to a party.
My sons bday is November 7th, I had planned to do the 9th as well but my sister in law planned her wedding for that date, I’m gonna end up throwing his on the 16th and doing something intimate just us for his actual birthday. I heard it’s bad luck to celebrate before their bday has passed that’s why I passed on the 2nd, not sure how true it is. It does suck I was really upset about having to do the 16th for a while because it feels like it’s way passed his birthday so it just sucks but it’s okay it’s not a huge deal!
We’re doing ours two weeks before his birthday because of our schedules ! It’s nbd
That’s the same day I’m doing my son party his birthday is the 5th
I would celebrate on the 2nd since more than likely the concert in the evening and ITS your baby first bday so if his nephew can’t make it to his cousin party oh well, it’s one party that he can miss but don’t ever short change your baby or try to accommodate it please others schedule when in essence people make time for what they want so make the party earlier in the day and that should be a win win