Getting two girls the same present
My BD and I would have been together 5 years this year.
We first met towards the back end of the year so we didn’t get each other any Christmas presents that year we met.
But we did exchange presents for special occasions in the subsequent years that followed.
He’s bought me designer bags, taken me on multiple holidays, taken me to expensive restaurants and has generally looked after me financially.
However, I found out that that first Christmas we exchanged gifts, he got me a present but a couple days into the new year got me some earrings on top. He has a first BM who’s birthday is around Christmas and he got her the same earrings for her birthday (the first year we exchanged gifts).
He hasn’t bought her anything else during the course of our relationship other than flowers and chocolates for mothers day (again in the first year him and I exchanged gifts).
Can I have your thoughts on this please girls.
1) your thoughts with just the information that stands
2) your thoughts given he has actually cheated on me with her with
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@Taylor but the thing is he gifted hers first then mine a week later and he is normally quite thoughtful with his gifts and surprises (for me anyway). I must add that he lied to me about giving the earrings hence why I wrote “I found out” he only mentioned the flowers and chocolates.
He probably realized how nice they were and decided to gift us ur own pair
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Men are simple minded.. he didn’t think about details and sounds like a little lazy effort for her gift.. like he went out shopping for you and seen they made more than one and didn’t care to go or spend any more time looking for her a gift