@Mirka she always asks me to come with her but I'll try that tomorrow xx
I was going with my girl everytime but it quickly becomes exhausting especially with the false alarms! I slowly started leaving her on the toilet whilst I ‘nipped to grab something’ etc and eventually she would just go by herself cos she realised she didn’t need me. She will come and tell me she has done a poo now but other than that she is independent.
What happens when you say "go ahead, you know what to do" and leave her to it?