I sit on the side of the bath and he sits on my lap, sometimes 2mins sometimes 1min depending on his mood.
As long as he can tolerate it. Standing up by the sink, he rinses his own toothbrush out . He always asks to brush his teeth.
As much as he will tolerate that day really! Some days it feels I can clean for like 30 seconds and some days a couple minutes. We try to make it fun with character toothbrush etc but he's at the stage where he wants to do everything himself which is just him just sucking the toothpaste off the brush 🙈
Depends on her mood tbh, sometimes her favourite stuffie does it or I’ll have to lay her down