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My little girl is 9 months old and I can’t stop thinking of what I should be doing for work. I used to be a legal secretary working in the Conveyancing and probate department but I had to leave due to lack of child care and they wanted me back full time 9-5. I have A-Levels in maths, biology and chemistry. I have been looking at courses at university and some are saying you have to be in some form of study in the past 5 years and I left my sixth form 3 years ago so I’m on a bit of a time limit for some courses. I was very interested in midwifery or nursing but I am also very aware that the hours these kinds of jobs require and as much as I want to work I also want to be present for my little girl spending Christmas’s, birthdays etc together. I was also really interested in becoming a maths teacher as I used to be a mentor and really enjoyed teaching but I think this would be around 5/6 years training and I have heard from teachers it’s not worth it! Really stuck on what to do. Has anyone had any of these careers with young children?
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My sister is a specialist nurse and works regular days. She goes back tomorrow after her mat leave and they are allowing a three day set week too which is great. It might be a case of looking into specific roles so don't let the fact it's usually shift work put you off 😊

I'm not any of these, but for teacher you may not have birthdays off every year but at least long term you will have all the holidays off, people may saying it's not financially worth it but if you have kids and you want to be present while saving money on childcare during the summer etc, then it's the perfect job really

@Chiara that’s exactly what I was thinking! Perfect to work around baby and get to support her when she’s older in her studies is perfect!

@Cristina I have heard of this but I don’t get how people can do their teacher training without a degree? I have tried to contact around but haven’t found any teacher training courses that’ll allow me to start without some form of degree. Is it a direct contact with a school?

If you’re looking to get into teaching, some schools now offer apprenticeship teaching roles - you would teach part time while attending college part time over 2 years and then be a qualified teacher at the end, but the pay isn’t very good while you’re doing the apprenticeship x

If you want to be present in your daughters life. Don't become a teacher ! People think having the holidays off is great for families. But in term time you will be working till 10pm every night. Be drained and be marking in the holidays anyways. Just look at the Facebook group exiting teaching. As an ex teacher, it's the worst family friendly profession. Stay clear.

I’m a paediatric nurse, I have a 2 year old and currently 30 weeks pregnant. I went back after maternity leave after 12 months part-time. I work 24 hrs a week over 2 days, so we do long shifts. I do days and nights, I’m used to it as have been doing it for a while and it works well for me with a young child. I always have his birthday off as I can request 4 shifts a month off of specific days I want/or annual leave. Christmas you have to either work one of the special days or new yr, I go for this. 😊 good luck on choosing your new venture. X

I’ll be honest - having just finished a degree myself which I started at the age of 23, I wish I listened to those who said ‘uni is a waste of time and money, it’s a scam don’t do it’ because they were right, I can’t get an interview, I can’t get a graduate scheme and I now work in customer service again!! The exact industry I studied a degree to enable me to leave! It’s a very tough, competitive world for graduates and the wages don’t correlate to the amount of time and work that you put in. For things like teaching where you often have to have a degree, I’d recommend as it’s an essential stepping stone, however I’d look into maybe some sort of degree apprenticeship or other route into the career you’re interested in. All I got out of uni was stressed, depressed and in debt 😂 AND I can hardly remember anything I learnt!

@Bex thank you for your honestly! This is very interesting to know

@V 🌼 thank you for this information it’s great to know this career can work around young children! X

@Gina I totally agree! I went to uni to do accounting and finance and really hated it I didn’t like it at all I was mugged twice on my way to uni and this really ruined my confidence. I dropped out after a few months and they slapped me to a debt company to pay back my student loan. I have to pay in full no instalments available apparently. It’s impossible for me to pay now unemployed with a baby. I am very nervous to go back and if I did it would have to be a very specific degree that went into a very specific job which are desperately needed.

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