Present for A-Levels?
Should I get a present for my adult (18 yo) SD when she gets her exam results this week even though she doesn’t like me, doesn’t speak to me and I’ve only seen once in the last 18 months as she refuses to come to the house? Feels like the right thing to do even though her and her sister have nothing much to do with me or my son who is her half brother.
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It's a lovely idea and shows you are making effort regardless. I wouldn't say you "should" though
I got her a gift and it was delivered to her house some days ago as I got an email notification. She didn’t acknowledge it so I asked my OH whether she’d received it. He asked her and she said she had. He said make sure to thank OP and she apparently said she didn’t ask for anything so why should she have to thank me! This I would expect from a 5 year old, not an 18 year old young adult. 🤷🏼♀️ But not my circus, not my monkeys!
Wow that's so rude! At least you know you were the bigger person and tried to dk a nice thing x
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If it feels like the right thing to do for you then do it. If anything it shows you do not have an issue with her and you made an effort , her choice then if she accepts that or not!