Need advice

My bf (and my child’s father) doesn’t wanna wear a condom, and I’m afraid of taking birth control bc of the crazy side effects. Any advice on which birth control helps? Or should I just dump him all together? I’m pretty sure I don’t want any more children, but I don’t know if I wanna get my tubes tied just yet. I don’t want to make decisions based on emotion, rather than logic.

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Are you both in a good stage in your relationship? Ready for baby?

@Ashlie we’re ok for the time being. We were only dating for 3 months before he got me pregnant. So my pregnancy was very emotionally difficult, considering we didn’t know each other that well and I made the decision to keep her. He’s apologized profusely for his behavior, but it just left a bad taste in my mouth. I’ve never wanted to have a bunch of kids anyway. He wants more kids and says he’s committed to me. But idk. It’s just a lot to think about and forgive him for.

Condoms your extra fertile after having a baby!! Get some ultrathin condoms n lube 🤷🏾‍♀️

Idk I’ve always just used the depo shot because it works well for me with no side effects at all except no period which I like. They make hormone free bc now tho, I would just look into that. Or even the hormone free IUD or something cuz those last for years and you don’t have to worry about it.

I used the Mirena iud before getting pregnant and loved it. I plan to get it again at my 6 week appointment. As for your bf refusing to wear a condom... that's really immature. My husband offered to wear condoms until we're ready for baby #2 (at least 1.5 years) if I didn't want to go back on birth control. If you're considering dumping him because of this (Which I think is reasonable) I would guess there are additional things leading you to feel this way and I would definitely consider if the relationship is what is best for you 💓

I’m in the same boat. I stay away from him lol 😂

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