Hiding pregnancy

Completely on the same page. I have had 4 early miscarriages and this is the first time we have hit 8 weeks without bleeding and we yet have to hear the heartbeat so theres still time for us. I personally would not want to tell anyone until everything is confirmed because that just leads to pain. If your husband is good and supportive its okay to keep it a secret for some time. Its hard, sometimes i feel so nauseous and wish my mom could help but but i rather break my own heart then hers :(

I would say as the woman carrying your baby you should be able to chose should you want or need a very small supportive circle of people to get you through your first trimester. I had a miscarriage a few months ago and my fiancé doesn’t want to share the news of this pregnancy however respects how difficult it is for me feeling so terrible and the need for support from a very select few people. Everyone is different but I’m glad i told my sisters, mum a few gfs!

We decided to wait to tell family till 12ish weeks this time… our first will be one year in a week and we didn’t want to take away from her first birthday. We’ve each told one friend so far to have someone to talk with besides each other about it

I had a miscarriage at 15weeks 2 months ago.. I have to say that having to message SO many people and tell them that we lost him was one of the hardest parts. Of course I'm glad my sister and best friend knew so they could support me, but I'm definitely only telling them this time & not others. I think we're waiting until I'm over 20 weeks to tell anyone (Thanksgiving).. which is also bitter sweet because Thanksgiving is when my last lil boy was due

I've told nobody except my employer (he is aware of my previous MC and very supportive) I actually don't feel any pressure to tell anyone yet either it's quite a nice feeling. Weather that'll change when I've had a scan who knows. Why don't you tell your mum? It's up to you nobody else x

We have told our friends and my mom, but no one else yet… only because my partner works further away so if I need to get to hospital I have someone to call… and he can meet me there instead of driving back on himself… we have told a selected few due to our previous lost

I want to wait till at least 15 weeks maybe longer to tell friends and family but worried how To hide it when I'm vomiting through the day, dizzy and peeing constantly 😓 but due to so many losses I don't want to tell anyone yet other than my husband he knows lol x

Thanks everyone, i do agree with my husband but im just excited and i cant tell my mom especially cause she will tell EVERYONE on the planet. 🤣

I would love to tell people now, I’m so excited, but because I miscarried last time I won’t be telling anyone until after the first scan and that will only be family. Then I won’t tell anyone else until after the 20 week scan as I’ve seen quite a lot of people here miscarry even in like week 16:( doesn’t feel like there is a safe window