Calling babies “karma”

I notice people will quickly call having a girl baby “karma” if the dad wasn’t present or abusive etc. The girl is supposed to teach the man through having her own heartbreaks and being treated as he treated her mom. Everyone wants a boy, because they’re “easier”. But what about the “karma” of raising a boy exactly the same way as the absent father was? I don’t believe babies are bad karma. I also believe it’s a nasty sentiment. Just a thought on something I noticed. What’re your thoughts on this?
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I also hate it when they say having a boy is easier. Like how do you know when every child is different.

Boys ARE easier .. but I’m willing to be open minded as I have a boy and a girl and I’m having my third child on Monday who is also a boy we will see if this still holds true lol

Ots an absolutely disgusting thought process. As far as wanting boys I did and I got them. I dint want boys because I thought for a second they are easier I wanted them because I liked the little suits and suspenders lol 😂

@Leah I’ve had a few men tell me raising girls is easier than boys.

@Leah Boys are not easier😩 Men are 8x more likely to be in jail then women, and I think like over 90% of s. abusers are men. Raising a good man is not easy, you can look at the stats. Parents are failing their boys. It’s very serious and unfortunately ppl take being a “boy mom” lightly.

@Kaitlin lmaoooo the suspenders😭😂 My mom just put my son in some and I was cracking up

Well I can’t speak for everyone else. All I can say is MY son was easier than my daughter and is very laid back just easy days, he does do stuff boys do like lots of energy , likes to play in dirt all of the things but over all just easier newborn - toddler.

@Leah I would like to understand this. What does your daughter do that is harder than her brother? Not sure if I asked that right. Is it a personality difference?

@Liv Yes ma'am. I've learned it's the buttom up shirts for my son. He's just so darn handsome. Somethings I'm like no mom that's a grown man shirt not a toddler shirt

My daughter is AMAZING . She has her own little personality mixed with a little of mine! God Blessed Me With a Mini Me And BESTIE 😭🤣 just newborn wise my son was quiet not too needy, my daughter was extremely colic , lactose intolerant cried 17 out of 24 hours a day for MONTHS … she is every bit of terrible twos and threes with tantrums, extremely hard headed, and knows what she wants. Overall my son and daughter are JUST two different kids and there’s nothing wrong with either just one was less problematic? Really easy going not sure if I can explain this in a way that doesn’t put the other down ? Becuase no matter how hard one over the other is they both have their days, they both do things differently and get their needs met in different ways.. they are also two different ages and require different things..

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