Rant

I need to vent after the terrible day I’ve had today, how does any of us be a mom and deal with the idiocy of the world? Like when your man is being an irritable person, and not understanding that you just want to sleep in after dealing with the kids all day and all night. Or having to be a defensive driver because people can’t read baby on board and think it’s funny to endanger you and your kids. My one annoyance today was at McDonalds, is it not our priority to change our kids in a clean sanitary place, or to at least be able to access the baby changing station at all times? I couldn’t change my son in the bathroom because this woman was in the big stall and I was waiting patiently for them to hurry up so I could change him, I didn’t say anything at all I was calming him down. She’s sitting there mumbling under her breath and taking forever, I was in there a good five minutes waiting for her to get out she flushed the toilet on purpose three times and still didn’t leave. I got annoyed and was going to ask his dad to change him because I also needed to change my daughter and the lady was like “go home already” I was annoyed at this point so I said “excuse me I can’t I need to change my son and I need that stall” she said “so use the stall next to me” I was not cleaning my son on the dirty disgusting McDonalds bathroom floor because this woman wouldn’t move. So I said “no I’m not doing that I need the stall” and she was saying I was harassing her when all I was doing was waiting for her to move. Why do people think that mothers shouldn’t have the priority they need to change there kids, it would be easier if they didn’t have all changing tables in the stalls or if there was just a separate room for the moms to go into instead of having to deal with this. She finally came out after two minutes and I was really annoyed. Like people don’t take being a mom seriously and they just look at us like we’re stupid and it doesn’t matter about having kids they matter more. Then my last straw was waiting for the fireworks to start and it’s hard to entertain kids at this age for a couple hours, and these people next to us were glaring at my kids and us for no reason like if you didn’t want to be there why be next to us. Seriously why is it that people see us as a bad thing and they just judge or give us a hard time.