Feeling absolutely miserable!

July marks month 12 of trying and feeling super sorry for myself today 😢 I know so many of you on here have been trying similar or much longer and just want some advise on how to stay strong and not let it consume ur life! Currently taking 6 tablets a day for fertility, not including when I take an extra 2 a day while on letrozole, spend half the month testing my urine for ovulation and the other half testing for pregnancy and just can’t take it anymore 😩
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I've been TTC #1 for 14 years and I must say, it took me awhile to get my mind in a content place in order to keep pushing. What I usually do is try my best each cycle and I always say if its meant to be, it will be. I now have went to a fertility specialist which gave us more insight outside of the PCOS i was already diagnosed with. So currently on IUI #2 and I must say, I am seeing the positive side of things. I tell myself each cycle, it didnt work BUT i was able to ovulate, i was able to get my cycle regulated, i was able to get pms symptoms so I take each loss as a win. You got this! Did you have testing etc with a fertility specialist?

@Patrice thanks hun! My heart goes out to you for trying so long and so so hope this iui goes well! Reallt hope you get that BFP soon! I definitely need to try look more positive as letrozole is helping just hitting the 1yr is a big milestone for me. I have had testing and understand my PCOS quite well but now it’s hit 12ms means I can be under nhs fertility rather than current private one so that’s a positive! Thankyou for your reply! I feel bad feeling sorry for myself when people have been trying much longer but I don’t know how you are so strong!!

Thank you so much. And no dont feel bad at all! It does not matter how long you have been trying. The fact is you are TRYING every feeling you have is valid no matter if you been trying for a day or years. So no need to feel bad at all. See, thats a great milestone that now you are being covered by nhs. I really hope with nhs, you are able to get the support and the help and conceive and have a successful healthy happy pregnancy!!! Im here if you ever need to talk so feel free to DM me.

@Patrice Thankyou so so much! Getting tearful but this is the exact pick me up I needed! People around me have all conceived without trying and I feel I’m now becoming annoying when I vent so it’s so nice to connect with others that understand the struggle x

Absolutely! I have alot of people around me that have conceived and currently pregnant. But I congratulate and say one day that will be me. This app is definitely helpful for me because we all are in this together. No struggle is harder than another's. The fact that we are all TRYING is the bond that brings us together for a reason.

@Patrice for sure, I’m always so happy for people which is good, used to make me super sad but luckily makes me excited for them and me one day and deffo! Having this community super helpful xx

I totally agree with you ❤️

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