I’m officially logging off 🫠

Hey I know how it feels... Dont lose hope okay? It will get better... I guess it will happen late for us but it will definately happen... Don't give up please 😣

I totally understand. I been at it for 14 years of now luck. A break is maybe what you need. Also, have you thought about reaching out to a fertility specialist so they can run test on the both of you?

@Patrice wow 14 years I hope you get your positive soon! After my MC we did all the labs had his sperm checked and everything came back normal I’m 32 and my husband is 35. I was thinking of checking with fertility specialist but I just don’t have the energy our life’s are so busy already so I really don’t want to add to it just to be more stressed if it doesn’t work. It’s all just so much

@Amber i totally get it! Thats how it was for me. Its been 14 years after my mc of no luck but right now we are working with our fertility specialist. Im on iui #2, if this one fails then its onto ivf. Maybe a break is what you need to go and enjoy each other and then when you're ready, you can circle back and try again

I’m so sorry, it’s incredibly frustrating😞 I was trying for 3 years with 4 miscarriages and Im finally 17 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby. I totally get it, I’ve taken breaks myself because otherwise I think I would be in the hospital on the psych ward. It’s so hard on your mental health. I just wanted to tell you my story to let you know that good things do happen even though it might not feel that way at the moment, I didn’t think it was possible until now. Do what’s best for you! Take care of yourself❤️

We tried for almost a year with our first with one chemical about seven months in. I had just reached out to a fertility specialist and had appointments to start testing and that's when it happened. I hate to say it but it does seem to happen when you're not stressing so much!

Have you tried getting tests done? I had 2 chemical miscarriages a year apart and in between nothing happened. I found out my cycle isn’t exact as I have slight pcos so my cycles were longer than I thought and I also have clotting issues. I went private I got scans to check when I would ovulate so I knew when to try and once I got pregnant I started heparin. Now I’m nearly 33 weeks

Not really anything I feel I can add with fertility advise, but I fell pregnant with all 4 of my children in month 6/7. Best of luck for future xx

I completely understand, I felt this way, I’ve only just properly gotten pregnant after a year of trying. I know you feel disheartened and I didn’t believe it when people said it, but IT WILL HAPPEN

3 years here so I understand

It took us a year but I stopped trying and it happened it’s the craziest thing stress is a huge huge huge factor