Boo don’t listen to them!! 😂😂 I don’t think you’re doing too much at all! He might not remember but he will definitely smile and be happy years down the line when you show him all the pictures and the effort you made to make the day special! Xxx
I’ve paid £70 for a cake to be made 😂. I don’t care it’s his first birthday and I can affford to so I have. He’s your baby do what you want
I agree with the above. I am making it a big deal and preparing lots of different things for her actual day and the party. Moments dont have any meaning unless we give them meaning. So focus on what you want to do and just enjoy it.
I’m doing exactly the same. Apart from baking the cake as I dred to think what it would turn out like. But I think do what you want with your baby don’t have to feel you need to justify to anyone!!
Oh my god this bothers me so much! If YOU want to celebrate YOUR child’s birthday in whatever way YOU want, then YOU should! I don’t get why family etc wouldn’t want to celebrate them in such a way!!! Go all out, buythe decs, bake a huge cake , buy all the toys you want because at the end of the day that kid is so loved by you so why shouldn’t you show it! I would just start responding like ‘yeah I get he might not remember/care etc but this is also my motherhood and I will remember it’ or something like that because it’s true! Also, it’s a celebration for you surviving the first year 🤣