Help I feel so guilty

Hey all, Basically It was my birthday and my dad and his wife have bought me a £130 bag from vendula which is vegan leather and all. So thoughtful and they were so proud to give it to me, now unfortunately that bag is not my style whatsoever and I mean I don’t even know what to pair it with, it’s literally horrendous. So now I’m having some money issues and I’m thinking of selling things, I’ve already sold some of my clothes and now I saw this bag… which I put on Vinted for £100 but I feel so so so guilty for selling it, someone even offered £90. I just feel ungrateful and kind of terrible for doing it. I just will never use it and I can’t return it because I have no receipt. Anyone any Idea what I should do, my birthday was 24 th of April btw so I didn’t even have it very long 😭 I’d send a photo, but then I’d feel even more guilty. I’m just more a cross body tote bag kind of person and that’s quiet a distinguish looking over the shoulder bag. I was thinking of using it as nappy bag or for baby to play with but then it’s not very handy 😭 Aw I dunno if I should accept £90 or deny and then just live with it.. I even thought that his wife probably chose it to spite me LOL (kinda joking… kinda not) Please help
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I feel like I need to see this bag 🤣 I have sold things discreetly but nothing as obvious as a bag. I always feel like what if they ask where such and such is or ask why I don't use it and I don't even own it anymore 💀 I just can't. I'd probably just stuff it in a wardrobe at least for another year lol

Girl, Google vendula sweetshop bag 😭😭 I know, it’s in there now but I’m so poor and could really do with £90 lol x

Omg it's hideous...such a random gift IMO unless you definitely know someone would love it 😬

I just googled it, maybe say it’s broken can you have a receipt to return it then say they’re out of stock 🤣 x

Yep it’s horrific and I’m a sporty kind of girl, like I’m more boho, stevie nicks and these bags are more for distinctive type of girls who have similar style. Should I take £90? I can’t because they have no receipt and it was from London 😭

Wow it’s so bad!! But I would just stuff it in a cupboard rather than sell.

If you know your not going to use it, I would sell it x

Just sell it! From my understanding and after seeing that ‘bag’ 😳 his wife must really like you 💅

I just feel bad they spent £130 and I would only get £90 for it 😭

Still more than YOU spent on the bag 😅

I have a Vendula bag, but it's definitely not as hideous as that. I would definitely sell it and take the money.

@Peer95 i am such a hoarder on this basis! my dad bought my partner a hat that says ‘save the chubby unicorns (rhinos) i have kept it as a just incase he comes over for the day and asks to borrow a hat (also. my partner doesn’t wear hats!) i also have a hooded towel, giraffe ear headband and a harry potter wand (im 28 and like harry potter and giraffes, but not enough to get these things as gifts for christmas)

that’s definitely a niche fashion bag! i’d definitely sell it! otherwise it’s only going to sit in a cupboard collecting dust. if your baby was old enough i can imagine it would be great for dress up or playing with, however that’s an expensive toy! especially if you need the money right now!

Sell it! Gifts are NOT obligations, as long as it’s not something super sentimental like a handmade gift or family heirloom, do not give it a second thought.

Bahahah I’m dying at all the people hating the bag, I don’t think my dad would have bought it… I was hinting once like “oh so who actually thought the bag would be good?” He said his wife and her sister spotted it and then they all loved it … he was like, why do you not like it? All disappointed.. so I lied and said “Noo I love it, it’s so cute and unique” and cringed all the way home lol Can you imagine how good I am at lying when I received the bag and 3 people looked at me expecting me to love it . I was so shocked and had to pretend so hard 😅 I love that they thought about vegan leather and all and it makes me sad to think my dad spend that much when I hate it, but I need the money and i don’t think anyone would pay more than £95 for a bag like this 😅 I mean I could try and sell it for more, but as everyone says it’s so niche … I can be lucky to get £95 😢🧡

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