Rant/want others opinion

Can you message me pls so I can tell you my input and situation I can't put it here

I am same as you. 2 and 1 year old 24 weeks pregnant. My entire family has an opinion on mine and my husband's fertility. Very annoying

I only have 1 kid but I got the same comments and still do.

Your body your choice! If you choose to have babies back to back that’s completely YOUR decision!! Honestly I’d just ignore those comments if I were you. Unless they are helping provide for your family they should not be trying to put any input or ask about your contraception choices! You are a very strong mama tho and salute to you!!

No experience with this but I would absolutely ignore! Yes i can imagine it being very annoying (I get asked after 1 kid) but if you want 3 kids then you have 3 kids!! There’s no limit on it and I think a lot of people are shocked because they couldn’t personally manage with 3 or 3 with little age gap / don’t want more than 1 or 2. You must be one hell of a strong mama and be so grateful for being able to get pregnant and have children 🩷 your family your rules !!

I have an 8 month old and am 22 weeks with my second. I can’t take hormonal birth control as it exacerbates a chronic condition so unless we just don’t have sex back to back pregnancy is going to be our thing. I think it’s more that pregnancy has become so medicalised and is seen as a dangerous event rather than something natural that women have been doing for thousands of years. Yes there are emergencies where modern medicine has its place and can save mum and baby but family planning isn’t one of them. My grandma had 5 kids in 5 years. And that was considered normal. Many other cultures actually frown on birth control and can have huge families even having kids well into their 40s (also considered dangerous 🙄)I think it’s you and your husband’s decision, you do you! And just ignore or put up boundaries with those who are voicing opinions about your decision.